Sunday, February 13, 2011

The picture a day thing? Yup - I suck at it :(

but I will try harder!!!!!

I am still recovering from this.......

Let the games begin!!!!! And continue all night until.........
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MORNING!!!!!
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A cupcake cake AND a pancake cake - a girl can never blow out too many candles or make too many wishes :)
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but I did take pictures of this.....

Wave to your moms and dads!!! Look how tiny he is compared to the other 2nd graders - and he is a full year older than they are LOL And - did you notice who he is surrounded by? Yes - Brady is a ladies man ;)
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work, work, work :)
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They were supposed to put their heads together and link arms and go in a circle - I didn't quite get it in the picture - but Brady would stand on his tip toes trying to get his head up as high as E's ;) He was soooo excited up there :) When we walked into the auditorium and the kids saw Brady across the stage they all yelled to him - yayyyy Brady is here - come sit by me, come on Brady. They are so accepting of him - it almost brought tears to my eyes - and he was sooooo happy to be with them. I think this is why I fight for inclusion - I honestly feel it benefits all the other kids just as much as it benefits Brady. You can't get far down the hall in school without someone stopping Brady to say hi or give him a high five - both older and younger grades. I worried about taking him away from his neighborhood school - would he have friends? Would he get invited to birthday parties? Would people know him? The answer has been a resounding YES - he has friends, he goes to parties, and people know him, accept him, and care for him. He is happy, and for now, he is a totally integrated part of his school community - something we will work to keep happening for the rest of his life :)
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ooops - was I saying that Brady was so much smaller than his classmates? Maybe it is a family trait ;) Hi Little K!!! :)
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Sunday Grains of Gratitude.......

The weeks are just rushing by - I can't believe it is Sunday again already - and it wasn't even a long weekend or anything (although I am totally anticipating a fabulous long weekend coming up ;) What a week it has been though - full of good moments, sad moments, and some not so great news coming to light. But, through it all, I have so much to be grateful for :)

This week I am grateful.....

that my Uncle Gordon could be surrounded by his family as he passed on and that he was more comfortable. He was the most amazing man, and I will never forget his goodness, his smile and friendliness and how his eyes always twinkled :) He was so positive and fun and funny. He will be missed.

that I got to see my big girls this week :) C came home to study one day unexpectedly and it was fun to just see her :) Big K came home after work yesterday and we visited for a bit and she called and talked to me for about a 1/2 hour earlier in the week. I just love them so!!!

that Brady did so great in the school concert on Thursday :) I'm such an anxious parent LOL I always wonder if he will be too overwhelmed by all the people/lights and not do the songs or actions, and sometimes he is, and doesn't participate as well, and sometimes he isn't and does it all :) This was one of those 'does it all' nights and it was grand to watch :) He was sooooo excited to go and to be a part of everything and be with his friends - he loves them so! If I can get the video downloaded I will put it on here so you can all see my cute boy :) He loved every minute of the concert and even though none of us had initially wanted to attend (last minute notice from the school, busy day etc....) I am so grateful we did - even Little K had fun for her song ;)

that the hubs and I got to the temple on Wed. night. It was a free night (the only one this week) and ended up being ward temple night and the hubs called last minute and asked if I wanted to go. Of course I always want to go to the temple - but - it was our only free night, so I also really wanted to stay home and veg out too :) I am grateful that we went, it was a good experience and I always love the spirit and the quiet reflection I get in the celestial room. I am grateful we went!

that J, H, and Little K were so great to tend Brady while we ran around to various activities. They are such great big brothers and sisters - and people are always telling me how awesome they are with Brady. The boys are so good to go and help out with cub scouts (so many in his troop with only 2 leaders, it is nice to have an extra set of hands to help Brady out sometimes). H sat with him at the concert with his friends - so grateful for him to always be so willing to help his little bro out! Little K always waits with him in the carpool lane and keeps him safe - since he sometimes thinks he should climb into any car that looks like ours ;) We are working on that LOL I am really grateful for my kids, and how much they love Brady and really want him to be successful - just like each other. When I hear of different attitudes that having a child with special needs will ruin your other children - I always look to my own kids, and really feel that is a cop out excuse and load of hooey ;) I know my kids have times where it is hard to have a little brother with special needs, but I also see how much joy they find in him, and the amazing things they have learned from him, and what better people they are - more accepting, compassionate, tolerant, and aware of all different types of people. I know they appreciate diversity more, and notice the small things, and celebrate the accomplishments of everyone. I think it has made them more aware of so many things. I am grateful for their love and support for him, and that I know they will love him and care for him if there ever comes a time that I cannot :) And, they all know that their future spouses must pass the Brady-test, as well - so anyone out there seriously considering making a run for those positions - just remember that LOLOL

that the hubs and I also got our Valentine's date yesterday!!! Whooo hoooooo :) I know, I know - Valentine's Day isn't til Monday - but - it's family night, and I am helping in Brady's class for his party - so that date thing was just not going to happen for V-day - so we did a little early date ;) A play, Texas Roadhouse for a yummy steak - with the man I love more than anything - what could be better!!!

for my mom and dad :) Soooo excited that we are going to see them this weekend and that they made a big sacrifice to make that happen. I love them soooo much! I could not have asked for better parents - and I cherish every minute I get to spend with them! They are wonderful!!! Travel safe Mom and Dad!!!!

What are YOU grateful for this week?

Sunday, February 06, 2011

Sunday Grains of Gratitude......

Sunday Grains - on Sunday!!! Woot woot :) I know, I know - I need to get out more ;) ha ha ha

What a busy, busy week! I guess it probably is not any busier than anyone elses, it just seems so overscheduled and busy to me. I like lazy pajama days at home where I can clean at will, check my email, and maybe talk on the phone and catch up with a friend or two :) I guess I did have some of that at the beginning of the week while Brady was home sick - but that was so long ago, I've already forgotten it ;) LOL

So many things to be grateful for this week!!!

This week I'm grateful........

that Brady is finally feeling better - yahoooo!!! Poor guy was kind of miserable at the beginning of the week and covered in petechaie - which always freaks me out! But, he gets that from time to time from viral infections, so I am pretty sure that is what it was from, since it is gone now. He is feeling much better!

that Brady's x-rays, blood draw, and PT evaluation for his back (scoliosis) went well. He was super cooperative and cute and in spite of having to wait for almost 2 hours to do our x-rays - he was patient and good and happy! I'm so very grateful they got the blood they needed with the first stick, and he was so good - reassuring himself - it's okay, I'm fine, it's okay. Blood draws always make him so nervous - but he is so patient with them. He is a needle watcher though - I always have to look away LOL We don't have the results yet - hopefully his WBC count will be back up in normal ranges and we'll get some info from the x-rays on exactly what is causing the curvature in his spine, since it seems to be worse in some positions and better in others, for now. I know it is just from his low muscle tone, so if it is just positional, that is fine, but I don't want it to become permanent. So I am interested to see what the films show. The PT suggested we go see a spine specialist at the children's hospital - so I will probably make an appointment for that.

that H did not have any missing assignments this week - hallelujah!!! It's a miracle ;) I wonder if Brady will be better at keeping track of his assignments and turning them in than the other boys? It finally kicked in for J in highschool - that gives H one more year. I think I might go crazy by then though ;)

For the Hubs help with homework and hanging out with Brady while I did YW things :) Now that all the kids are in YM/YW and I am too - we don't have any sitters left at home! So when we are all go on Mutual night- it's party with Dad and Brady :) He has been great to help with Brady's homework (which I am grateful we now have - bet you thought you would never hear that outta me!) and hang out with him, even when he needs to be doing other things ;)

that Little K is rocking her soccer game lately :) She told me all those training sessions with the mean trainer and evil older premier girls actually were worth it the other day :) And I can see it - although it was a tough commute down to do them, and the other girls really were mean and the trainer yelled a lot :) Not really our cup of tea, but apparently she is now grateful she did it and I am too. It think it comes from playing with girls and boys who are so much better than our girls were, so they worked harder to try and perform at that level. She has had some nice goals, great assists, and overall is just playing well in her indoor league :) And - she is having lots of fun too - they just love to win (which doesn't seem to happen on the outdoor field that much LOL)

for J's help with Brady :) He kept an eye on his a lot this week while I was preparing for Little K's party, or picking H up from play practice, or a multitude of other things ;) He took his turn going to scouts with him - we have too many cub scouts for just two leaders to keep an eye on all of them and Brady - so I usually send one of my boys to 'help' :) I'm grateful for the two cubs each week that rotate to be Brady's buddies and help him feel more integrated and a part of his troop. He is often much more open to doing something/going somewhere when prompted by a peer than by an adult or member of his family :) We like to use peer pressure in positive ways (although he really is always watching, and picks up the bad stuff as well as the good ;) And - for MY friends who called and offered Brady a ride with their boys - it is so much more fun for him to go places WITH friends, and he loves loves LOVES it - so I really am grateful when they call and ask if he wants to carpool :)

for the faith of Mormon pioneers. Our youth are going on Trek this summer, so we have a big emphasis on pioneers and the Willy and Martin handcart companies (because the youth will follow the trail for 3 days that these handcart companies took and end in Martin's cove (I think?). The faith that these people had was incredible, and to read of their experiences and hardships - one would think it would be easy to lose your faith in God in having so many difficult experiences - but their stories of courage, of determination, of perseverence - touch my heart - and I am grateful for their sacrifices and for their testimonies. My ancestors were pioneers, and they were some of the first to reach the Salt Lake Valley - but they came in wagons - not in handcarts - which although treacherous and difficult - was nothing like the handcart companies had to endure. I am grateful for them, for their enduring to the end, and for their histories and testimony and faith. When the hubs and I got married, our sealer talked at length about the pioneers and the sacrifices they made, and how important they are in our lives - and I really didn't appreciate all he said and imparted to us that day (because I really thought he should be talking about marriage and our lives together and eternity LOL) but the stories and struggles of the pioneers touch my heart, and I can't help but feel the spirit when I read of all they went through, all they endured for religious freedom, freedom from persecution, and just on pure faith, that the Lord would take care of them, and that they could be together and able to practice their religion without fear for their lives and be with their families forever. What amazing people they were, and how grateful I am that my ancestors (and my mom, who is a convert) accepted the gospel, because I can't imagine what my life would be without it.

And - for Nicole - Brady's aide :) She is so darling and cute and patient with him. I am grateful that she takes the time to try and understand what he is saying, to help meet his needs, and to really know him :) I know it isn't always an easy job to get Brady to do what he needs to do - especially when it involves work and things that are hard for him - but she makes it fun, and persuades him in silly ways, and works so hard to get him to learn, and to do the things he needs to. I'm grateful for her willingness to learn more about Down Syndrome and being open to try new things and tweak things to work for him :)

and last - but certainly NOT least - that Little K's late night/slumber Birthday party went well :) She had about 17 friends over and they partied their little hearts out :) I'm grateful her invites turned out cute, her friends all came and mixed well together - sometimes that is hard when you are mixing neighborhood, school, and soccer friends - the games were fun (thank heavens for the internet - what did we ever do before it ;) - everyone let Brady be a part of the whole party (he loves them when they are at our house - he spent the entire time til we made him go to bed - 7 til midnight - in the center of it all - watching and running around and playing games with all the girls - and they were so patient with him and included him in everything!) - and they didn't stay up ALL night - only til around 2:30 ;)

What are YOU grateful for today???

Tuesday, February 01, 2011

Like sands through the hour glass......

so are the days of our lives......

or - in this case - the pictures of our lives ;)

I am starting to feel a sense of deja vu in my life - I think it is becoming a series of BTDT moments ;) Maybe that just happens the older you get, the more kids you raise - etc.... :)

So - I haven't been blogging because my days have been spent doing this......

CELEBRATING!!!!

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COOKING!!!
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LAUNDRY (and I should be so embarassed to post this - but hey - this IS keeping me from blogging ;) ha ha ha

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MAKING INVITES TO PARTY!!!!!!
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SOCCER!!!!
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HOMEWORK!!! Reading, writing, spelling and math!!!
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ADVOCATING - for my cute boy!!!!
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Trying to piece back together my phone contacts after a little dishwater mishap from Little K texting on my phone and doing dishes at the same time (note to Little K - cell phones and water = disaster and a bit of a grumpy mom ;)
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ORGANIZING - I'm wondering if it is a little creepy that we have the whole Toy story gang :) Hopefully they get along well with Spongebob!!!
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Potty training - will it ever end?????
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and taking care of my sick little boy :( Hopefully he is on the mend and will be back at school soon!!!!
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